The Representation of Sexual Abuse Survivors in Popular Media
Sexual abuse is one of the worst forms of trauma one can endure and one millions of people all over the world survive every day. Popular media, such as movies, books, social media and television, play an important role in spreading awareness of sexual abuse and depicting survivors’ realities.
The Impact of Representation
Popular media is an extremely powerful tool for spreading awareness and normalizing acceptance of survivors of sexual abuse, particularly for younger generations. Seeing yourself represented and your struggles represented can be incredibly validating and comforting. On the other hand, if media presents an inadequate representation of this issue, it can perpetuate negative stigmas and misunderstandings about survivors. Responsible media should be striving to make sure that their depictions of sexual trauma are not only thoughtful and detailed, but also respectful.
Many well-known pieces of media tend to portray very outdated or simplistic versions of the sexual abuse experience. Some examples of common misrepresentations include:
- Reducing trauma to one traumatic event: Trauma is not an event-based phenomenon – it is an ongoing process of living with psychological damage as a result of a traumatic experience.
- Insensitive language: Films or literature may use outdated, inappropriate language or slurs to refer to sexual abuse survivors or their experiences.
- Harmful stereotypes: Survivors of sexual abuse are often portrayed as helpless, innocent victims or aggressive psychopaths.
- Completely ignoring minoritized survivors: Sexual abuse happens to people of all genders, sexual orientations, races, and religions, yet many media platforms fail to acknowledge this.
Achieving Authentic Representation
Authentic representation of sexual abuse survivors is not only possible but necessary in order to help break the stigma surrounding this traumati situation. Here are some tips on how to effectively represent survivors in media:
- Explore the range of experiences: Not every survivor experiences the same emotions or has the same coping mechanism. Representing a diverse range of stories can provide valuable insight into the range of trauma experiences and destigmatize them.
- Show a range of outcomes: Survivors of trauma can experience a number of emotional reactions, such as anger, guilt, shame, or hope. Each story should reflect different outcomes and journey.
- Address the realities of recovery: Recovery from any form of trauma is an ongoing process, and media should reflect this fact. Showing healing and growth as an ongoing journey is more accurate than simply depicting ‘happy endings.
- Be mindful of language: Sexual abuse is already a difficult topic to discuss openly, and words can have a huge impact on how survivors perceive their own experience and tell their stories. Avoiding insensitive language and aiming for a respectful dialogue is key.
- Be inclusive: Survivors come from all walks of life, so it is important to ensure that representations of survivors accurately reflect this. This means including people from all races, backgrounds, genders, ages, and more.
- Above all, be sensitive: Even with all the considerations above, the most important thing to remember is to always be respectful and sensitive when discussing this topic. Approaching it thoughtfully should always be the number priority.
Overall, popular media still has a long way to go when it comes to accurately portraying experiences of sexual abuse survivors – but, with a little effort, thoughtful representation can and will be achieved, ultimately helping to destigmatize this issue once and for all.